Again, thanks for a great essay! I will stand corrected with reference to my observation concerning tone. Your writing is always reasonable. What my beginning observation referred to in the main is that most of the pieces of yours I have read have dealt with the sexual aspects of relationships. You make many interesting observations. One observation I will make, based on my reading of all of the articles of yours I have read, is that your husband is blessed among men. I hope he knows how lucky he is.