Assuming your bio picture is accurate, I suggest that, the next time you snd your husband go out to anywhere there is a decent-sized crowd, you take a good look at the people around you. Look especially at the women. Then go home, and really look in the mirror. I suggest that you will see what your husband-and I, and most men-see: a very attractive woman. Your husband sounds like a man wise enough to know your ego needs stroking. Let him do so. Let him stroke any other portion of your body he chooses to stroke. Show him you very much want that. In that way, you may encounter foolish young clerks, but you will know how the most important man in your life feels about you.