Congratulations on what I think is one of the most insightful articles on modern dating that I have read. Based upon reading countless articles on Medium.com and in other locations, I believe the observations are largely correct. Even in the case of women who may not be in the top few percent either in terms of appearance or accomplishment, it would seem that one of the most common causes of affairs and divorce is simple boredom-especially for women. Spouses or long-term partners can easily drift into a pattern of complacency and routine. While infidelity and poor relationship skills can lead to the dissolution of a relationship, even the strongest bond needs to be nourished by some degree of variety. Where one person in the relationship is a high achiever and constantly exploring new things, the only possible chance for long-term relationship success is if that person partners with someone of a similar nature.