I have read your post on breaking up with Phil and about Flo’s reaction to the kiss. I will be interested in reading your reaction to Flo’s first relationship to someone other than you. Then we will see if you are as liberated from traditional mores as you claim. I do not say that in condemnation. I question your devotion to your principles until they are tested on you. If you are as accepting as you present him as being, then you will have successfully transitioned to your new life.