I think you might profit by reading a piece I found today on Medium. It is called "Every Woman's Greatest Fear is That She Won't Make it Home," by Alice Vuong in "The VIrago," a Medium publication, dated March 15, 2021. I often struggle to put myself into the place of another person. Articles like this have helped me over the years to understand how others feel. Behavior men consider friendly teasing is often mot perceived as such by women. I am sure you are a good guy and would never intentionally terrorize anyone. Intent is not the only issue. How the recipient of a remark perceives it is just as important.