I wonder how many men, if guaranteed anonymity, would answer that question the same way. I suggest that, while many women are just as libidinous as their mates, many are not. Those who are not might consider suggesting improvements in procedure to their mates which might increase the number of encounters they might find enjoyable. Both must find it enjoyable. I suggest most men see sex as not only a release, but also a validator. If she doesn’t want me, is it because she thinks I am not good enough? If she thinks that, what now? That might not be what is going on in her mind. It is in his.