People as disciplined as you and your wife were are probably rarer now. I was going to write that this article should be mandatory reading for every student entering high school. I won’t suggest that. First, for many, it will be too late. Second, it isn’t young people who need that article. It is their parents-who are so terrified by the power of human sexuality that they think inflicting a wedding night like yours on young people is worth the damage it caused.