Sexual liberation has brought pluses and minuses. We should remember that there are approximately four billion men and four billion women on this planet at this time. To expect every person to react in the same way is foolish. Every person has individual wants and needs. However, the "save it for marriage" approach that our grandparents and those before were taught is almost a guarantee of relationship failure. If a person got married because their belief structure made them feel that marriage was the only way to engage in sex they take a hideous risk. The odds of a person choosing wisely in both a sex partner and a spouse as teens- when hormones and temptation are at their peak-is vanishingly small. I take marriage seriously. I see it as a lifetime commitment. To choose someone who not only loves and desires you at one time does not mean that theye have the inclination and capacity to commit to you and to grow with you over time should be considered-and not just hormonal.