There is an old Chinese saying: “When the student is ready, a teacher appears.” To expose people to a different view does not create instant changes. But it can plant a seed that, under the right circumstances, can flourish. People come to realizations for different reasons. While many men are born, live and die as testerone-poisoned imbeciles, it might be possible for some of them to quiet their hormones enough to be able to hear what women say. While the post has humor, it also reveals that all of us-men and women-are generally too proud and too fearful to express our true feelings.If they could, men would then be able to reserve their hyperhormonal responses for the women who-unlike the author-actually desire them.