This poem should be given to every couple before marriage and the husband should have to read it again at least once a year. After talking to so many women over the years, I know you have captured what so many of them feel. The problem is that most men have no experience with the tasks of running a household that they don’t know what they don’t know. Women have to learn that men really don’t get it. Women have to explain their situation to their men-and do so repeatedly.