What I have come to understand-and I credit women like you and several others on Medium for educating me-is just how enormous the gap between how men and women view the world is. That is a major problem in the work world. It is a Grand Canyon in relationships. There is no formal system of educating young people to be in a relationship. And there are fewer marriages than ever which provide productive erode models. I hope to write about this more in the future as part of a larger effort. As for you, keep writing!