Your relationship came to my attention when your girlfriend posted about it in the New York Times. You have written about it. Both of you view it favorably.. How come we have never heard from your girlfriend’s husband? If everything were perfect, I am surprised he would not want to present how he saw things and to praise the relationship. Is he as happy as the two of you? As I recall, your girlfriend presented this relationship with you included to her husband as a take it or leave it proposition. Let’s hear from him.