Your solution to the issue of affairs-better marriages brought on by more self-awareness and communication-involves the acquisition of skills that do not come naturally to many people. With reference to self-awareness, that problem keeps therapists employed. As for communication, there is more than enough information available for those who seek it. But relationships? How many people are raised in homes where relationships are toxic? Where do people learn about relationships-other than home? Putting another burden on educators is almost cruel, but we have to find a way to teach people skills.